We were long distance and meeting was not feasible in the beginning, so the only form of communication we used were texts messages via phone and email. The messages he sent were not your ordinary lame messages like "how are you", or "Good Morning". They were
well thought out and planned. They pushed my emotional buttons. If you can push a woman's buttons, you got it made.
He used silence and mystery to heighten my attraction. It was not always what he did say, but often what he didn't say. He left gaps for my imagination to fill in. A woman that is left to use her imagination can create all sorts of things. In my mind, he created attraction. Combining techniques with the words when texting a girl can be very powerful.
This guy did use some pretty awesome words, but it was way more than that. It was in his delivery as well and his timing. He would use silence at times. Silence alone can be very powerful. He was consistent but very unpredicatable which as a result often had me anticipating his next text. When it would finally come, I would be so relieved and excited. He trained me like pavlov's dog I am telling you. This guy was king of texting a girl.
Now I have texted and emailed with hundreds of guys and am here to say, none of them held a candle to this guy. He knew instinctively what got a women's attention. If you don't know this power and it does not come natural to you, learn it. It can make all the difference in the world. Women are emotional, learn how to communicate with them and build a deep attraction.
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