2010年9月26日星期日

一定要幸福

可能是年纪的关系,现在有时会很感伤。每当想到以前的,现在还有未知的将来时,还真不是能几句话就说完,以前的一些场景在眼前反复的重播,甚至都怀疑真的有那么长的时间了吗?昨天又听说一个同学要结婚了,从毕业到现在,闺密、朋友、同学接二连三的“被人抢走了”。直到昨天突然觉得身边冷清了,才意识到人是会长大的,一直还以为自己还是个孩子在看到朋友的孩子时,竟有一阵感慨的说不出话来。怎么在不知不觉中人就长大了呢?
还记得在参加我最好朋友的婚礼时,看到新人在婚礼进行曲中缓缓的走过时,往事竟像电影画面一样的闪过,那些青春的岁月,懵懂的时光,还有那些微小的细节都一下子回到眼前,我竟然含着眼泪看完了仪式,像个见证了岁月的老人一样感叹人生。我们就是这样彼此的见证着长大了。
如今朋友们都有自己的生活,有自己走的路,我们在成长的旅途上“分道扬镳”了,但是怎么能忘记那些有你们陪伴的旅程呢?那些教我的事,给我的启迪与激励,还有很多的快乐……我们曾经在一个起点走过来的,虽然将奔向不同的终点,但那份感动,那份回忆是我们这一路上最美的收获与人生最宝贵的财富,将陪伴我一生。
现在,即将踏上崭新旅程的你,即将迎接崭新生活的你,记得一定要幸福,努力的让自己幸福,你们,还有我自己

2010年9月25日星期六

朱镕基的简历

在中国,有这样一个人:
他是一个孤儿,尚未出生,父亲早逝,九岁的时候,相依为命的母亲也因贫病而死。
他命运多舛,在湘西求学时,染上了霍乱,几乎死去。
他是靠奖学金完成的学业,1947年,他以湖南状元的身份考进了清华大学。在清华,他是学生会主席。
1949年加入中国共产党,尚未毕业便已参加工作,他是有名的青年才俊。
1951年朱镕基从清华大学毕业后,随后即被派往东北,担任东北人民工业部计划室副主任。1952年,他又参加了国家计划委员会的筹建工作。他被当做最有潜力的年轻干部。
1958年,脾气倔强、性格率直的他因言获罪,被打成右派,从此陷入了长达20苦其心志,劳其筋骨,饿其体肤的蹉跎岁月。从30岁到50岁,20年的金色年华恰似一江东流的春水,永远不会再回来!
1983年,中国第一位前右派的副部级任命获得通过,他被任命为国家经委副主任,电机制造专业的他,成为了继邓小平以后,中国政坛最出色的经济学专家。此后,他还兼任中国人民银行行长。他还担任过清华大学经济管理学院17年的院长,他是博士生导师。
他是明太祖朱元璋的十八世孙,1998年,他成为了中华人民共和国的总理。
他叫朱镕基,一个被渐渐淡忘的名字。
老百姓说,只有他镇得住贪官,因为他不怕死。只有他敢改革,因为他不怕得罪人。
因为在职时执法严厉,他得罪了许多权贵,退休后,中央对他加强了保护,他渴望过平民的生活,可惜做不到。
也许你还记得国庆阅兵直播上那短暂的1秒,仅仅只是一秒。
如果真有一股力量在企图使我们淡忘他,我们以该做些什么,至少要对得起他的白发。
以下是摘录的朱镕基的语录:
1996年岁末,时任国务院副总理的朱镕基观看话剧《商鞅》,为剧情所动,凄然泪下,并且称赞历史上的改革家是民族的脊梁商鞅以惊人的勇气掀起改革之潮流,终为顽固羁绊被车裂而死。
1998324,朱镕基主持新一届国务院第一次全体会议,提出五项要求:牢记自己是人民公仆,全心全意为人民服务;恪尽职守,敢于讲真话;从严治政,敢于得罪人;清正廉洁,严惩腐败;勤奋学习,刻苦工作。约法三章:在国内考察要轻车简从;精简会议,压缩时间减少人员;减少应酬,集中精力研究处理重大问题。
199889,朱镕基紧急飞赴江西九江,九江的决堤,使他勃然大怒,他当即怒斥负责人:你们不是说固若金汤吗?谁知堤内是豆腐渣!这样的工程要从根查起,对负责设计、施工、监理的人员都要追查。人命关天,百年大计,千秋大业,竟搞出这样的豆腐渣工程、王八蛋工程。腐败到这种程度怎么了得?历史是不容欺骗的!在向抗洪官兵讲话后转身离去时,他边走边擦眼角的泪水。
1998年,朱镕基在中央一次重大会议上,铿锵有力的发言至今让人感到振聋发聩,在反腐败问题上,中央是有决心的。这个问题不解决,中国无法长治久安。反腐败就是要先打老虎后打狼,对老虎决不故息手软;我这里准备了100口棺材,99口留给贪官,一口留给我自己,无非是一个同归于尽,却换来国家长治稳定发展和老百姓对我们事业的信心。
1998319不管前面是地雷阵还是万丈深渊,我都将一往无前,义无反顾,鞠躬尽瘁,死而后已。
2001年,朱镕基辞去院长职务的告别演说,我曾有过20年(1958———1978)没有党籍的日子,但是在那些日子里,我从来没有放弃过我的信念。我没有忘记清华对我的教育,没有做有愧于心的事情。今天,我告别清华,以后就很少来了,实际上,就是不来了。但是,请大家放心,我的心永远留在清华。清华的每一个成绩,我都会欣慰,清华的每一个难处我都会关心,清华的每一个不足我都会指出。再见了,我永远是一个清华人!
对于朱总理只做了一任总理我们无能为力!
对于朱总理受到的压迫,我们也无可奈何!
对于阅兵式上只给朱总理三分之一个镜头我们更是只能愤怒,却无法改变这一切。
但是,
我们可以为朱总理的晚年收集一万个祝福
请留下一句祝福朱总理来表达我们对朱总理的尊敬!

2010年9月23日星期四

Self-confidence

Confidence is power--the power to attract, persuade, influence, and succeed. Imagine what your life would be like if you had an abundance of selfconfidence !
     Confidence isn't an inherited trait, it' s a learned one.  This means that you can have an abun-
dance  of  self-confidence.  Start here, right now.
     Confidence starts in the mind.What you think of yourself very much influences the way you feel about yourself. This, in turn, affects the way you speak and act.
     No one can make you feel inferior without your consent.
     The very first thing you have to do to create abundant self-confidence is to start thinking with confidence. Pay attention to your internal dialogue, and learn to notice when you allow negativity or doubt to control the course of your thinking.
     Your environment has a tremendous influence on you. The books you read, the people you spend time with, and the music you listen to all influence the way you think and feel about yourself and the world around you.
     In a nutshell, your environment can either build up your self-confidence or drag it down.
     If you're in a situation where you're discouraged, such as an unhealthy relationship or a miserable job, you have to change that situation if you want your self-confidence level to grow.
     Create an environment that supports you if your desire to have abundant self-confidence. Spend time with confident people.
     Remember those, self-confidence can be yours. Take it!

2010年9月15日星期三

How This Guy Stole My Heart Texting

We were long distance and meeting was not feasible in the beginning, so the only form of communication we used were texts messages via phone and email. The messages he sent were not your ordinary lame messages like "how are you", or "Good Morning". They were
 well thought out and planned. They pushed my emotional buttons. If you can push a woman's buttons, you got it made.

He used silence and mystery to heighten my attraction. It was not always what he did say, but often what he didn't say. He  left gaps for my imagination to fill in. A woman that is left to use her imagination can create all sorts of things. In my mind, he created attraction.  Combining techniques with the words when texting a girl can be very powerful.

This guy did use some pretty awesome words, but it was way more than that.  It was in his delivery as well and his timing.  He would use silence at times.  Silence alone can be very powerful.  He was consistent but very unpredicatable which as a result often had me anticipating his next text.  When it would finally come, I would be so relieved and excited.  He trained me like pavlov's dog I am telling you.  This guy was king of texting a  girl.

Now I have texted and emailed with hundreds of guys and am here to say, none of them held a candle to this guy. He knew instinctively what got a women's attention. If you don't know this power and it does not come natural to you, learn it. It can make all the difference in  the world. Women are emotional, learn how to communicate with them and build a deep attraction.

2010年9月9日星期四

THE SEIGE OF LA ROCHELLE


The Siege of La Rochelle was one of the great political events of the reign of Louis XIII, and one of the great military enterprises of the cardinal. It is, then, interesting and even necessary that we should say a few words about it, particularly as many details of this siege are connected in too important a manner with the story we have undertaken to relate to allow us to pass it over in silence.



The political plans of the cardinal when he undertook this siege were extensive. Let us unfold them first, and then pass on to the private plans which perhaps had not less influence upon his Eminence than the others.



Of the important cities given up by Henry IV to the Huguenots as places of safety, there only remained La Rochelle. It became necessary, therefore, to destroy this last bulwark of Calvinism--a dangerous leaven with which the ferments of civil revolt and foreign war were constantly mingling.



Spaniards, Englishmen, and Italian malcontents, adventurers of all nations, and soldiers of fortune of every sect, flocked at the first summons under the standard of the Protestants, and organized themselves like a vast association, whose branches diverged freely over all parts of Europe.



La Rochelle, which had derived a new importance from the ruin of the other Calvinist cities, was, then, the focus of dissensions and ambition. Moreover, its port was the last in the kingdom of France open to the English, and by closing it against England, our eternal enemy, the cardinal completed the work of Joan of Arc and the Duc de Guise.



Thus Bassompierre, who was at once Protestant and Catholic-- Protestant by conviction and Catholic as commander of the order of the Holy Ghost; Bassompierre, who was a German by birth and a Frenchman at heart--in short, Bassompierre, who had a distinguished command at the siege of La Rochelle, said, in charging at the head of several other Protestant nobles like himself, "You will see, gentlemen, that we shall be fools enough to take La Rochelle."



And Bassompierre was right. The cannonade of the Isle of Re presaged to him the dragonnades of the Cevennes; the taking of La Rochelle was the preface to the revocation of the Edict of Nantes.



We have hinted that by the side of these views of the leveling and simplifying minister, which belong to history, the chronicler is forced to recognize the lesser motives of the amorous man and jealous rival.



Richelieu, as everyone knows, had loved the queen. Was this love a simple political affair, or was it naturally one of those profound passions which Anne of Austria inspired in those who approached her? That we are not able to say; but at all events, we have seen, by the anterior developments of this story, that Buckingham had the advantage over him, and in two or three circumstances, particularly that of the diamond studs, had, thanks to the devotedness of the three Musketeers and the courage and conduct of D'Artagnan, cruelly mystified him.

It was, then, Richelieu's object, not only to get rid of an enemy of France, but to avenge himself on a rival; but this vengeance must be grand and striking and worthy in every way of a man who held in his hand, as his weapon for combat, the forces of a kingdom.



Richelieu knew that in combating England he combated Buckingham; that in triumphing over England he triumphed over Buckingham--in short, that in humiliating England in the eyes of Europe he humiliated Buckingham in the eyes of the queen.



On his side Buckingham, in pretending to maintain the honor of England, was moved by interests exactly like those of the cardinal. Buckingham also was pursuing a private vengeance. Buckingham could not under any pretense be admitted into France as an ambassador; he wished to enter it as a conqueror.



It resulted from this that the real stake in this game, which two most powerful kingdoms played for the good



pleasure of two amorous men, was simply a kind look from Anne of Austria.



The first advantage had been gained by Buckingham. Arriving unexpectedly in sight of the Isle of Re with ninety vessels and nearly twenty thousand men, he had surprised the Comte de Toiras, who commanded for the king in the Isle, and he had, after a bloody conflict, effected his landing.



Allow us to observe in passing that in this fight perished the Baron de Chantal; that the Baron de Chantal left a little orphan girl eighteen months old, and that this little girl was afterward Mme. de Sevigne.



The Comte de Toiras retired into the citadel St. Martin with his garrison, and threw a hundred men into a little fort called the fort of La Pree.



This event had hastened the resolutions of the cardinal; and till the king and he could take the command of the siege of La Rochelle, which was determined, he had sent Monsieur to direct the first operations, and had ordered all the troops he could dispose of to march toward the theater of war. It was of this detachment, sent as a vanguard, that our friend D'Artagnan formed a part.



The king, as we have said, was to follow as soon as his Bed of Justice had been held; but on rising from his Bed of Justice on the twenty-eighth of June, he felt himself attacked by fever. He was, notwithstanding, anxious to set out; but his illness becoming more serious, he was forced to stop at Villeroy.



Now, whenever the king halted, the Musketeers halted. It followed that D'Artagnan, who was as yet purely and simply in the Guards, found himself, for the time at least, separated from his good friends--Athos, Porthos, and Aramis. This separation, which was no more than an unpleasant circumstance, would have certainly become a cause of serious uneasiness if he had been able to guess by what unknown dangers he was surrounded.



He, however, arrived without accident in the camp established before La Rochelle, of the tenth of the month of September of the year 1627.



Everything was in the same state. The Duke of Buckingham and his English, masters of the Isle of Re, continued to besiege, but without success, the citadel St. Martin and the fort of La Pree; and hostilities with La Rochelle had commenced, two or three days before, about a fort which the Duc d'Angouleme had caused to be constructed near the city.

2010年9月8日星期三

A Handful of Clay

There was a handful of clay in the bank of a river. It was only common clay, coarse and heavy; but it had high thoughts of its own value, and wonderful dreams of the great place which it was to fill in the world when the time came for its virtues to be discovered.



Overhead, in the spring sunshine, the trees whispered together of the glory which descended upon them when the delicate blossoms and leaves began to expand, and the forest glowed the fair, clear colors, as if the dust of thousands of rubies and emeralds were hanging, in soft clouds, above the earth.



The flowers, surprised with the joy of beauty, bent their heads to one another, as the wind caressed them, and said: "Sisters, how lovely you have become. You make the day bright."



The river, glad of new strength and rejoicing in the unison of all its waters, murmured to the shores in music, telling of its release from icy fetters, its swift flight from the snow-clad mountains, and the mighty work to which it was hurrying --- the wheels of many mills to be turned, and great ships to be floated to the sea.



Waiting blindly in its bed, the clay comforted itself with lofty hopes. "My time will come," it said. "I was not made to be hidden forever. Glory and beauty and honor are coming to me in due season."

One day the clay felt itself taken from the place where it had waited so long. A flat blade of iron passed beneath it, and lifted it, and tossed it into a cart with other lumps of clay, and it was carried far away, as it seemed, over a rough and stony road. But it was not afraid, nor discouraged, for it said to itself: "This is necessary. The path to glory is always rugged. Now I am on my way to play a great part in the world."




But the hard journey was nothing, compared with the tribulation and distress that came after it. The clay was put into a trough and mixed and beaten and stirred and trampled. It seemed almost unbearable. But there was consolation in the thought that something very fine and noble was certainly coming out of all this trouble. The clay felt sure that, if it could only wait long enough, a wonderful reward was in store for it.



Then it was put upon a swiftly turning wheel, and whirled around until it seemed as if it must fly into a thousand pieces. A strange power pressed it and molded it, as it revolved, and through all the dizziness and pain it felt that it was taking a new form.



Then an unknown hand put it into an oven, and fires were kindled about it --- fierce and penetrating --- hotter than all the heats of summer that had ever brooded upon the bank of the river. But through all, the clay held itself together and endured its trials, in the confidence of a great future. "Surely," it thought, "I am intended for something very splendid, since such pains are taken with me. Perhaps I am fashioned for the ornament of a temple, or a precious vase for the table of a king."



At last the baking was finished. The clay was taken from the furnace and set down upon a board, in the cool air, under the blue sky. The tribulation was passed. The reward was at hand.



Close beside the board there was a pool of water, not very deep, not very clear, but calm enough to reflect, with impartial truth, every image that fell upon it. There for the first time, as it was lifted from the board, the clay saw its new shape, the reward of all its patience and pain, the consummation of its hopes --- a common flower-pot, straight and stiff, red and ugly. And then it felt that it was not destined for a king's house, nor for a palace of art, because it was made without glory or beauty or honor; and it murmured against the unknown maker, saying, "Why hast thou made me thus?"



Many days it passed in sullen discontent. Then it was filled with earth, and something --- it knew not what --- but something rough and brown and dead-looking, was thrust into the middle of the earth and covered over. The clay rebelled at this new disgrace. "This is the worst of all that has happened to me, to be filled with dirt and rubbish. Surely I am a failure."



But presently it was set in a greenhouse, where the sunlight fell warm upon it, and water was sprinkled over it, and day by day as it waited, a change began to come to it. Something was stirring within it --- a new hope. Still it was ignorant, and knew not what the new hope meant.

One day the clay was lifted again from its place, and carried into a great church. Its dream was coming true after all. It had a fine part to play in the world. Glorious music flowed over it . It was surrounded with flowers. Still it could not understand. So it whispered to another vessel of clay, like itself, close beside it, "Why have they set me here? Why do all the people look toward us?" And the other vessel answered, "Do you not know? You are carrying a royal scepter of lilies. Their petals are white as snow, and the heart of them is like pure gold. The people look this way because the flower is the most wonderful in the world. And the root of it is in your heart."



Then the clay was content, and silently thanked its maker, because, though an earthen vessel, it held so great a treasure.

2010年9月6日星期一

The Seven Ravens

There was a man who had seven sons, but he had no daughter, greatly though he longed for one. At last his wife told him that they could again expect a child and, sure enough, when it was born it was a baby girl. There was great rejoicing, but the child was weak and puny, so weak that it had to be christened at once. The father told one of the boys to go quickly to the spring and fetch christening water; the other six ran along with him, and because each of them wanted to be the first to dip the jug into the well, it fell in and sank. So there they stood and didn't know what to do, and none of them dared go home. When they didn't come back their father got impatient and said:" I'll wager they've been playing some game again and forgotten all about it, the godless brats." He was afraid the little girl would have to die unbaptized, and in his rage he cried out:" I wish those boys would all turn into ravens." He'd scarcely spoken the words when he heard a whirring of wings in the air overhead, looked up and saw seven coal-black ravens flying away.



The parents were unable now to take back the curse, and yet, grief-stricken as they were at the loss of their seven sons, they look some comfort from their beloved little daughter, who soon got well and strong and became more beautiful with every day that passed. For a long time the little girl didn't even know that she had had brothers, for her parents took care not to mention them, but one day by chance she heard some people talking about her. "The girl's beautiful, of course," they were saying, "but she's to blame really for her seven brothers' misfortune." This made her very sad, and she went to her father and mother and asked whether it was true then that she had had brothers and what had become of them. So now it was no longer possible for her parents to conceal from her what had happened, though they told her that it had been God's will and that her birth had only been the innocent occasion for it. But day after day she was conscience-stricken about it, and felt that it was her duty to free her brothers from the spell again. The thought gave her no peace, so in the end she left home secretly and went off into the wide world to try and trace her brothers wherever they might be, and rescue them at whatever cost. She took nothing with her but a ring belonging to her parents to remember them by, a loaf of bread for when she was hungry, a jug of water for when she was thirsty, and a little chair for when she was tired.



She went on and on, further and further, till she reached the end of the world. There she came to the sun, but it was too hot and terrible and it devoured little children. Quickly she ran away and went to the moon, but it was too cold and it was grisly and evil, and when it noticed the child it sail:” I smell human flesh.” So she hurried off as fast as she could and came to the stars, and they were friendly and kind to her, and each of them was sitting on its own little chair. But the morning star got up and gave her a little chicken's leg and said:” If you don't have this chicken's leg, you won't be able to unlock the glass mountain, and inside the glass mountain is where your brothers are.”



The girl took the leg, wrapped it up well in a piece of cloth, and set off again and went on and on until she came to the glass mountain. The gate was locked, and she tried to take out the chicken's leg; but when she unwrapped the cloth it was empty, and she had lost the gift of the kindly stars. What was she to do now? she wanted to rescue her brothers, but she had no key to the glass mountain. The good little sister took a knife, chopped off one of her little fingers, stuck it in the lock and successfully opened the gate. When she got inside, a little dwarf came to meet her, saying:” My child, what are you looking for?” “I'm looking for my brothers, the seven ravens,” she answered. The dwarf said:” My masters the ravens are not at home, but if you would like to wait here till they get back, then come in.” Then the dwarf brought in the ravens' supper on seven little plates and in seven little cups, and the little sister ate a morsel from each plate and drank a sip from each cup; but into the last cup she dropped the ring she had brought with her.



Suddenly she heard a whirring and fluttering noise in the air, and the dwarf said:” Here come my lords the ravens flying home.” And they came, asked for food and drink and looked for their plates and cups. Then one after another of them said:” Who's been eating from my plate? Who's been drinking out of my cup? This must have been a human mouth.” And when the seventh of them had got to the bottom of his cup, the ring rolled out towards him. Then he looked at it and recognized it as a ring belonging to his father and mother, and said:” My God grant that our little sister is here; if she were, we should be freed from the spell.” The girl was standing listening behind the door, and when she heard him speak this wish she stepped out, and as she did so the ravens recovered their human shape. And they hugged and kissed each other and went happily home.